Anonymous asked: Hello, My dad drove away after I told him I was gay and he hasn't come back yet. We (my brother and I) tried calling him several times. Now we are at an abortion adopting center and I dont know what to do. I feel like my whole life is over please help!

Answer:

But you weren’t aborted…. This stinks of fakeness. Be ashamed, grey face.

Anonymous asked: so i made a mistake by ditching this guy at winterball because my friends said that he wasnt good enough for me and i was really shallow at the time. i didnt know how to make my own decisions and love who i wanted to love. now he kinda hates me but i still have these feelings for him...what should i do???

Answer:

Sorry for the late reply, I’ve only just finished training. Honestly if this advice is still needed I can tell you he doesn’t hate you. The resentment is there purely because he fancies you. You hurt him but that doesn’t affect his feelings for you. Tell him what you told me, say you were stupid and you always regretted saying no.

Just letting everyone know that I start training this monday coming and I don’t think there’ll be many computers in the barracks, so if you wanna say anything you’re gonna have to put in an ask ASAP. #advice  #blog  #army 

pink-suede asked: Love what you do here, it's really nice I would love to do that for ppl. :)

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:3 :3 :3 :3 To be honest I always thought I was a bit of a cunt with people on here :P

You should do it :) things take off pretty quickly if you tag stuff and get people to promote you :)))

DO IT DO IT DO IT :D

Tell me the addi if you do set one up so I can get people to look on yours if they want a girls opinion or w.e :)

Anonymous asked: You do know me, but I'd rather not tell you who I am. I don't want to stop because I enjoy it. I feel like I have to though, before it gets worse because I've been fantasising about taking an overdose for a while too. Or alternatively, someone I care about finds out because I don't want to hurt anyone else.

Answer:

I can’t make you stop- that’s something you have to do for yourself I’m afraid. I can tell you, however, that OD’ing and cutting is both ugly and pointless. Scars don’t show others your emotion, or poetically make you beautiful. They just mark. They aren’t pretty, or ugly, or anything- they just stand you out as a “cutter”.

If you feel you need to stop, then the best thing I can advise is to find something else to distract you. The best thing I find is a good cry. If you cut to bring things back to a physical base and away from an emotional one, then I have to be pretty typical here: ask a friend you trust and talk to them, and cry a LOT. Weird, but crying helps. It’s a physical response to emotional torment. 

Find something or someone to distract you. Spend time doing it or spend time with the person. Do whatever you can to make yourself happy and forget about cutting. I think that’s the key to helping yourself. It’s how I get through things that make me sad. If you get everything off your chest, tell people how you feel (especially if they’re involved) and then keep yourself busy.

There’s a couple of things you can do anyway, but only if you WANT to. :)

#advice blog  #cutting  #od  #overdose  #self  #harm 

Anonymous asked: I've been depressed for a while, that I know. I used little things like scratching or burns to help calm me down but over the past few weeks, I've started cutting. A lot. It's taken control, to the point where I can't stop and I don't really want to. I did it a few times before, years ago, but one of my friends noticed and I managed to stop or at least find other ways of dealing with things. I started because... it made me feel in control of things but now it controls me and I need to do it.

Answer:

So it’s changed to an addiction. Fair enough, but I’m a strong believer that addiction is a case of mind over matter. You say you don’t want to stop, yet you’re on an advice blog. That says to me that you want help. If you wanted to get it off your chest you’d go to a confessions blog. The fact you asked for this blog on my main blog says that you know me personally, or have at least chatted online. You aren’t just a random anon off tumblr. 

Come and talk to me, I won’t bite. Or at least tell me what it is you want help with? I mean, you say you don’t want to stop, so that makes me curious as to what you want advice on? You know I should just say “stop, don’t do it, you hurt yourself and it hurts those around you” but to be honest if nobody knows about it and you genuinely want to carry on doing it, me telling you not to won’t change anything :/