But you weren’t aborted…. This stinks of fakeness. Be ashamed, grey face.
Sorry for the late reply, I’ve only just finished training. Honestly if this advice is still needed I can tell you he doesn’t hate you. The resentment is there purely because he fancies you. You hurt him but that doesn’t affect his feelings for you. Tell him what you told me, say you were stupid and you always regretted saying no.
:3 :3 :3 :3 To be honest I always thought I was a bit of a cunt with people on here :P
You should do it :) things take off pretty quickly if you tag stuff and get people to promote you :)))
DO IT DO IT DO IT :D
Tell me the addi if you do set one up so I can get people to look on yours if they want a girls opinion or w.e :)
I can’t make you stop- that’s something you have to do for yourself I’m afraid. I can tell you, however, that OD’ing and cutting is both ugly and pointless. Scars don’t show others your emotion, or poetically make you beautiful. They just mark. They aren’t pretty, or ugly, or anything- they just stand you out as a “cutter”.
If you feel you need to stop, then the best thing I can advise is to find something else to distract you. The best thing I find is a good cry. If you cut to bring things back to a physical base and away from an emotional one, then I have to be pretty typical here: ask a friend you trust and talk to them, and cry a LOT. Weird, but crying helps. It’s a physical response to emotional torment.
Find something or someone to distract you. Spend time doing it or spend time with the person. Do whatever you can to make yourself happy and forget about cutting. I think that’s the key to helping yourself. It’s how I get through things that make me sad. If you get everything off your chest, tell people how you feel (especially if they’re involved) and then keep yourself busy.
There’s a couple of things you can do anyway, but only if you WANT to. :)#advice blog #cutting #od #overdose #self #harm
So it’s changed to an addiction. Fair enough, but I’m a strong believer that addiction is a case of mind over matter. You say you don’t want to stop, yet you’re on an advice blog. That says to me that you want help. If you wanted to get it off your chest you’d go to a confessions blog. The fact you asked for this blog on my main blog says that you know me personally, or have at least chatted online. You aren’t just a random anon off tumblr.
Come and talk to me, I won’t bite. Or at least tell me what it is you want help with? I mean, you say you don’t want to stop, so that makes me curious as to what you want advice on? You know I should just say “stop, don’t do it, you hurt yourself and it hurts those around you” but to be honest if nobody knows about it and you genuinely want to carry on doing it, me telling you not to won’t change anything :/