Just letting everyone know that I start training this monday coming and I don’t think there’ll be many computers in the barracks, so if you wanna say anything you’re gonna have to put in an ask ASAP. #advice  #blog  #army 

it-s-g0nna-be-0kay asked: Love what you do here, it's really nice I would love to do that for ppl. :)

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:3 :3 :3 :3 To be honest I always thought I was a bit of a cunt with people on here :P

You should do it :) things take off pretty quickly if you tag stuff and get people to promote you :)))

DO IT DO IT DO IT :D

Tell me the addi if you do set one up so I can get people to look on yours if they want a girls opinion or w.e :)

Anonymous asked: You do know me, but I'd rather not tell you who I am. I don't want to stop because I enjoy it. I feel like I have to though, before it gets worse because I've been fantasising about taking an overdose for a while too. Or alternatively, someone I care about finds out because I don't want to hurt anyone else.

Answer:

I can’t make you stop- that’s something you have to do for yourself I’m afraid. I can tell you, however, that OD’ing and cutting is both ugly and pointless. Scars don’t show others your emotion, or poetically make you beautiful. They just mark. They aren’t pretty, or ugly, or anything- they just stand you out as a “cutter”.

If you feel you need to stop, then the best thing I can advise is to find something else to distract you. The best thing I find is a good cry. If you cut to bring things back to a physical base and away from an emotional one, then I have to be pretty typical here: ask a friend you trust and talk to them, and cry a LOT. Weird, but crying helps. It’s a physical response to emotional torment. 

Find something or someone to distract you. Spend time doing it or spend time with the person. Do whatever you can to make yourself happy and forget about cutting. I think that’s the key to helping yourself. It’s how I get through things that make me sad. If you get everything off your chest, tell people how you feel (especially if they’re involved) and then keep yourself busy.

There’s a couple of things you can do anyway, but only if you WANT to. :)

#advice blog  #cutting  #od  #overdose  #self  #harm 

Anonymous asked: I've been depressed for a while, that I know. I used little things like scratching or burns to help calm me down but over the past few weeks, I've started cutting. A lot. It's taken control, to the point where I can't stop and I don't really want to. I did it a few times before, years ago, but one of my friends noticed and I managed to stop or at least find other ways of dealing with things. I started because... it made me feel in control of things but now it controls me and I need to do it.

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So it’s changed to an addiction. Fair enough, but I’m a strong believer that addiction is a case of mind over matter. You say you don’t want to stop, yet you’re on an advice blog. That says to me that you want help. If you wanted to get it off your chest you’d go to a confessions blog. The fact you asked for this blog on my main blog says that you know me personally, or have at least chatted online. You aren’t just a random anon off tumblr. 

Come and talk to me, I won’t bite. Or at least tell me what it is you want help with? I mean, you say you don’t want to stop, so that makes me curious as to what you want advice on? You know I should just say “stop, don’t do it, you hurt yourself and it hurts those around you” but to be honest if nobody knows about it and you genuinely want to carry on doing it, me telling you not to won’t change anything :/

Just came back after an awesome weekend to 13 asks: 12 private advice ones and one anon on my personal blog asking for a link to here. Seems to be a fucked up weekend for you guys </3 #advice blog  #anon 

Valentines day doesn’t seem too happy for you guys! Don’t worry, drop an anon if you have to, I’m not just doing private ones :) #valentines day  #advice blog  #breakup 

I’ve decided I like valentines day. Fuck all you haters :3

Anonymous asked: I really like someone and I'm a really nice guy but she doesn't notice and says im a friend

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Regardless of what women say, nice guys get friend zoned. I suppose the only way out is to cut all contact with her for a few weeks and work on your ahem ‘womanizing’ skills :P

Anonymous asked: I feel so hopeless, I'm not sure if I want to live. My life has no sense, my friends don't even have time for me. They are all in relationships while I'm literally forever alone, I'm the only one who's gay and ugly. I'm sure I won't ever find love.

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Trust me- I know a gay guy who’s DAMN ugly and yet he gets loads of guys. o.0

Be more proactive in your approach to these things.